Home Is Where The Ship Is

2011 Crystal World Cruise

Ill take things that I know for $20,000 Alex

2015 Holland America World Voyage

The Med, Norway And Beyond

Suez Canal Crossing

Suez Spelt Backwards IS Zeus

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Thursday, December 26, 2024

Norway's Ecstasy

Narrow Road to the Interior

Narrow Road to the Interior

Four Seasons in One Day

Mother Nature laughs out loud. Life is forever. I’m past the point of no return. Instead, I’ll concern myself with the best way of moving forward.

Mindless Purity

Putting the odd back in God, I recall: Before, "Norway Earth Goddess" was just a yuppie salad dressing at Whole Foods. I never thought people died—they just went to organic health food stores. And that Japanese guy who always wins the hot dog eating contest? Clearly, the antichrist.

Today, as I kayak in the fjords, I observe the sun, the water, the green—all in perfect flow. I whisper to myself, “Yes, indeed, all this belongs to me.” But more than that, I realize I play a role in its appearance.

A Glimpse of the Universe

In fleeting moments, I catch a glimpse of the deeper, random chance encounters of my "3-pound universe" (my brain). Mother Nature and Father Time are no longer external forces but mere facets of my subjective consciousness. This realization feels immortal.

Epiphany

The epiphany strikes: Old-school selfishness says, "I am the center of the world." The New World Order whispers, "I create the world." Space and time aren’t objects—they’re tools my brain uses to arrange reality. Without "me," they don’t exist.

Father Time doesn’t end; he simply reboots. Like turtles carrying their shells, we carry space and time within us. Without mind, matter doesn’t "matter"—it hovers as waves of probability. There is no absolute grid independent of thought.

Conclusion

Though our bodies self-destruct, the 20-watt fountain of energy in our brain doesn’t vanish at death. Instead, Father Time restarts the cycle. The universe resides not outside us but within. What the bleep?

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A One Man National Geographic

The Geography of Bliss

The Geography of Bliss

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It was the best of vibes. It was the worst of vibes. We waited for 2020 to have that perfect vision. Nobody could predict what they'd be seeing and doing last year - washing our hands, wearing a mask and social distancing because of the global pandemic. Normally, we would be sailing in the Norwegian Fjords, The Baltics or through Alaska's wildlife super highway, and Glacier Bay. Tis the season but all fleets have come to a grinding halt. And then we found Fair Isle, which is like a cargo ship, surrounded by sea.

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Home Is Where My Laptop Is-Being Digital In Stockholm

Ed Reif 2.0: The Startup - Seeking Change and New Experiences

Ed Reif 2.0: The Startup - Seeking Change and New Experiences

Stockholm was my port of call during the summers of 2009 and 2010, but my connection with the city goes back further. I spent three months there in 1996, navigating the usual obstacles: fatigue, ambiguity, and the danger of being too enthusiastic. Along the way, I picked up some Finnish jokes, like this one: “The Finnish man loved his wife so much, he almost told her.”

Discovering Digital Inspiration

Serendipity led me to an English bookstore where I found one of the most influential books of my life: Nicholas Negroponte’s Being Digital. This treatise on the shift from atoms to bits was a primer on how interaction, entertainment, and information would converge. Ironically, the book’s digital version never goes out of print, proving its thesis in real time.

Boom! The concepts of “napsterization” (cutting out the middleman), “tivoization” (time-shifting on-demand entertainment), and the 24-hour news cycle were reshaping the world. Negroponte, the visionary behind it all, predicted, “Computing is not about computers anymore. It is about living.” His idea of a “Daily Me”—a personalized digital newspaper—became the inspiration for this very blog, where “everyone is my neighbor.” Hence, the title: Hotel @nyware.

Personal Growth Through Technology

Being Digital wasn’t just a book; it was a glimpse into a decentralized future that was already here but unevenly distributed. My personal “wired awakening” came in 1998 when I began teaching visual literacy. I used the internet to engage students, shifting focus from “space” (the printed page) to “time” (web-based timelines and interactive media). This experience cemented my belief that good education is also good entertainment.

“Nobody remains quite what they are when they recognize themselves.”

Opportunities Beyond the Classroom

The flexibility of teaching—June, July, and August—freed me to explore new gigs. I consulted for Creative Planet, learning about production tools for the movie industry and the early joys of free downloads via Napster and Limewire. I also got my SAG card as a film and TV extra, playing roles like an attorney in a horror movie. The ability to shoot, edit, and send dailies remotely using Macs and FTP sites amazed me. It was a digital revolution in action.

Sweden’s Impact on My Digital Journey

In 1996, my “analog eyes” couldn’t fully grasp the digital revolution. Sweden wasn’t solving my digital “problems,” but it was subsidizing them. I accessed free ISDN internet at Stockholm University’s library and relied on their “user-friendly” PCs. A random student even helped me set up my first email account—Hotmail, which I still use today. Tack sÃ¥ mycket, Stockholm!

Reflections on Doing Nothing

Sweden taught me the power of stillness. Doing nothing, often seen as subversive in American culture, became my greatest tool for reflection and growth. The days passed more slowly, and the language barriers made me more accessible to others. People stepped in to help, reminding me that connection thrives in the unfamiliar.

“The time I enjoyed wasting in Sweden wasn’t wasted time. I made great friends, read a book that changed my worldview, and got my first email account. I got wired!”

A Footnote to Hotmail

In 1997, I visited Hotmail’s office in Silicon Valley. To my surprise, it wasn’t a grand tech campus but a strip mall filled with stacks of microcomputers. This tiny operation was the birthplace of my virtual address, which I still “reside” at today. Two years later, Microsoft bought Hotmail for $400 million—a testament to the power of bits over atoms.

Today, I value my data far more than the physical devices that store it. This shift from the tangible to the digital aligns perfectly with Negroponte’s vision, proving that the future he predicted is now our reality.

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How Swede It Is

The Power of New: Sweden Through My Eyes

The Power of New: Sweden Through My Eyes

“Traveling, for me, is like flirting with life. It’s that fleeting yet exhilarating feeling of saying, ‘I want to love you, but I have to go.’”

A Land Beyond Stereotypes

When people think of Sweden, they often conjure images of frigid winters, ABBA, or those famously safe cars. My own “SAAB story” is one for the books, but there’s far more to this country than good looks and pop culture icons. I was determined to uncover Sweden’s essence, and my adventure started with a bike tour through the streets of Stockholm.

Stockholm on Two Wheels

Stockholm is a cyclist’s paradise. With bike paths crisscrossing the city’s many islands, it’s easy to explore its breathtaking beauty. Every time I got on my bike, I felt like the luckiest person in the world. Though Stockholm’s bike culture is impressive, it doesn’t quite rival Copenhagen, where there are as many bikes as people. Still, Stockholm’s streets offer an unparalleled riding experience—one that made me feel connected to the city in a unique way.

Moments of Serendipity

One of my favorite memories was stumbling upon an English bookstore where I discovered Nicholas Negroponte’s Being Digital. This groundbreaking book, a beacon of the information revolution, delves into how the worlds of interaction, entertainment, and information converge. It was a celestial coincidence, one that transformed how I viewed the digital world. Ironically, I didn’t even own a computer at the time. My digital awakening was still on the horizon, but Sweden gave me the first taste of what was to come.

Personal Growth in Unexpected Places

Sweden wasn’t just a destination; it was a catalyst for change. The slow days, the language barriers, and the newness of it all pushed me out of my comfort zone. It was a place where I could do nothing and yet feel like I was doing everything. Those moments of stillness—so alien to my American sensibilities—were transformative. They taught me that sometimes, doing nothing can be the most powerful thing of all.

“Nobody remains quite what they are when they recognize themselves.”

Sweden reminded me that happiness isn’t about where you are—it’s about embracing the journey and the endless possibilities that come with it.

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3 Years of Magical Thinking @ Sea

3 Years of Magical Thinking @ Sea

“People say that what we are all seeking is a meaning for life. I don't think this is what we're really seeking. I think what we're seeking is an experience of being alive.”
— The Power of Myth by Joseph Campbell

This world cruise has been one of the most introspective and rewarding chapters of my life. It feels like I’ve hit pause on "Normal Life" to fully immerse myself in the adventure of traveling the world aboard another cruise ship. I call it PT—Permanent Travel—or "Mini Retirements." Sure, I haven’t been everywhere just yet, but it’s definitely on my list.

Roam Sweet Roam

As I document this journey—this round-the-world travelogue—I find myself saying, "Roam Sweet Roam." For me, home is not tied to an address but to my laptop. As a digital nomad, I thrive on being location-neutral, making anywhere and everywhere my @nyware. Whether it’s in the middle of nowhere or the center of everything, like Sri Lanka, I’ve discovered that a reliable high-speed internet connection is all I need to feel at ease. Here, I’m doing everything I’d normally do in the USA—but with a refreshing twist and at a fraction of the cost.

The Symbolism of the Elephant

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While in Southeast Asia, I’ve grown fond of elephants as symbols of strength, peace, and joy. In local culture, a laughing Buddha riding an elephant with children is a powerful emblem of happiness and prosperity. This resonates deeply with me as I reflect on the journey and the sense of abundance it brings.

“Surely, it’s the right desires that guide us to the right places. Nothing of importance ever happens by accident.”

Choosing Experiences Over Things

Hotel @nyware isn’t about collecting material possessions. It’s about choosing experiences over things and living a life enriched by travel and self-discovery. It’s not the same as buying a tourist package—it’s about looking into the metaphorical mirror to see who you are when you aren’t bound by your routines.

A New Perspective on Travel

Beyond physical travel, Hotel @nyware is a mindset. It’s not a lifestyle; it’s a way of seeing the world differently—a shift in values that naturally translates into action. Long-term travel isn’t about age, income, or belief systems—it’s about your attitude. And as they say, attitude determines altitude.

If I’ve learned anything, it’s that the unexpected only happens when I step out of my comfort zone. This journey is about being continuously curious and deeply engaged with my surroundings.

“I’m not just choosing experiences. I’m curating memories—memories of what I’ve done and of what I dream to do.”

Every day, I’m reminded that life truly is a beautiful journey.

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2011 Notes From The 110 Days World Cruise

2011 Blog Entries

2011 Blog Entries

  • Waikiki - Banyan Tree Hugger

    Standing under the sprawling banyan trees of Waikiki, I couldn’t help but marvel at their grandeur. These majestic trees are more than just a part of the landscape; they are living monuments to the enduring beauty of nature. Their shade offers solace, their roots ground the earth, and their branches invite me to slow down, breathe deeply, and appreciate life’s simplicity. Waikiki’s banyan trees don’t just grow; they inspire me to grow, too—emotionally, spiritually, and environmentally.

  • Honolulu - Be(ing) There, Aloha!

    The spirit of Aloha is more than a warm greeting; it’s a philosophy. During my time in Honolulu, I found myself embracing this ethos of being present, connecting with others, and sharing kindness. Whether it was the soothing rhythm of the ocean waves or the smiles exchanged with locals, Honolulu taught me that being fully present is the greatest gift I can give myself and others. Aloha isn’t just a word; it’s a way of life.

  • Life of Pie - Ï€ and Unconscious Eating

    What do mathematics and pie have in common? More than you’d think. This post explored how Ï€, the symbol of infinite possibilities, parallels the choices I make around food. Too often, I eat mindlessly, unaware of the textures, flavors, and stories behind each bite. Inspired by this revelation, I began to embrace the art of conscious eating. Every meal became an opportunity to honor the cultural narratives and the love that go into food preparation.

  • Mele Kalikimaka - Write About Here

    Christmas in Hawaii is a sensory feast. The tropical twist on holiday traditions—from Santa arriving on a canoe to palm trees adorned with lights—creates a unique festive spirit. This year, I joined the locals in celebrating Mele Kalikimaka, a blend of Hawaiian and Western yuletide customs. Writing from the islands, I felt the warmth of community and the joy of creating new traditions that resonate with the spirit of Aloha.

  • The Aquatic Life - Dolphin Swim Club

    Swimming with dolphins is more than an activity; it’s a conversation with nature. In the clear waters of Hawaii, I had the privilege of experiencing the playful and intelligent world of dolphins. Their clicks and whistles seemed to tell stories of joy and freedom. This encounter reminded me of the importance of protecting our oceans and the extraordinary creatures that call them home.

  • Crystal Serenity World Cruise - Setting Sail (November 2010)

    As Cruise Director aboard the Crystal Serenity, I embarked on a 110-day World Cruise—a journey that would redefine adventure. From the moment we left Los Angeles, I felt the thrill of endless possibilities. The energy onboard was electric, with guests eager to explore the world and create unforgettable memories.

  • Bora Bora - The Infinity Pool (January 2011)

    Bora Bora was like stepping into a dreamscape. Its lagoon, often called nature’s infinity pool, sparkled under the sun, blending seamlessly with the horizon. I spent the day marveling at the vibrant marine life and embracing the serenity of this South Pacific gem. The local warmth matched the island’s beauty, leaving an imprint on my soul.

  • Moorea, Polynesia - I Am Paul Gauguin and So Can You (January 2011)

    Moorea’s dramatic peaks and lush greenery transported me into one of Paul Gauguin’s masterpieces. This was a place where art and life converged, inspiring me to see the world through an artist’s eyes. Each vista felt like a brushstroke on the canvas of my journey.

  • Sydney Harbor - "Con te partirò" (February 2011)

    Arriving in Sydney Harbor to the iconic views of the Opera House and Harbour Bridge was breathtaking. The city’s vibrancy was matched by its welcoming spirit. I found myself humming "Con te partirò," moved by the harmony of nature and human ingenuity that Sydney embodies.

  • Milford Sound - Under the Waterfalls (February 2011)

    Sailing into Milford Sound felt like entering a sacred space. Towering cliffs and cascading waterfalls surrounded us, creating an awe-inspiring atmosphere. Standing on deck, I felt a profound connection to nature’s raw power and tranquility.

  • Napier, NZ - Got Sheep vs. Got Milk? (February 2011)

    In Napier, I was charmed by the juxtaposition of rolling sheep pastures and Art Deco architecture. The playful "Got Sheep?" culture here reminded me of New Zealand’s unique humor and deep agricultural roots. It was a delightful blend of the pastoral and the whimsical.

  • Goa, India - Happy Is Hippie (March 2011)

    Goa greeted me with its vibrant colors, from the spice markets to the golden beaches. The relaxed vibe of the region was infectious. As I explored its historic churches and coastal serenity, I understood why Goa has long been a haven for free spirits.

  • Cochin, India - Coconut Republic (March 2011)

    Cochin’s canals and coconut groves felt like stepping into a tropical Venice. The city’s blend of Indian and colonial influences offered a rich tapestry of experiences, from spice-laden cuisine to warm interactions with locals. Cochin embodied the heart of South India’s charm.

  • Cape Town - Swimming with Sharks (April 2011)

    Diving into the waters off Cape Town to observe sharks up close was both exhilarating and humbling. These apex predators showcased the balance of nature’s power and elegance. Cape Town itself, with its Table Mountain backdrop, remains one of the most stunning places I’ve ever visited.

  • The White Cliffs of Dover - A Grand Finale (June 2011)

    As the cruise came to an end, the White Cliffs of Dover offered a poignant farewell. Their stoic beauty reminded me of the resilience and timelessness of nature. Reflecting on the journey, I felt immense gratitude for the world’s wonders and the connections made along the way.

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Norway Is Alaska WITH Balls!

The Arctic Circle: Sailing on Top of the World

The Arctic Circle: Sailing on Top of the World

Western Norway and Hardangerfjord

Posted by Hotel @nyware on June 29, 2015

“We shall not cease from exploration, / and the end of all our exploring / will be to arrive where we started / and know the place for the first time.”

- T.S. Eliot, The Waste Land

Norway is Alaska with balls.

At 20 years old — the "Old Age of Youth" — I could only accept this bold statement on blind faith, as I had yet to experience the truth behind the words. Home, as I saw it, was a place I wanted to leave as soon as possible, a place to escape in pursuit of new horizons.

There is something deeply human about the impulse to explore, to break free from the familiar. This urge to sail away is ancient, persistent, and universal.

Voyages trigger something called "psychological distance." The act of leaving familiar ground creates a jolt, an awakening that floods the brain with fresh ideas and perspectives. It's like wiring new neurons—neurons that fire together, wire together. And now that I have my dreamer-pilot's license, I am certain I will be "flying" once again.

For me, this shift in perspective begins the moment I board a cruise ship. Ships have always been an oddly lucid part of my life. Every journey I take aboard one seems to shift me in some way, and Norway has done it again.

As Karen Blixen so eloquently put it:

“The cure for anything is salt water: sweat, tears, or the sea.”
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Alaska-The Great Land

Glacier Park, Alaska: A Journey to Marjorie Glacier

Glacier Park, Alaska: A Journey to Marjorie Glacier

Marjorie Glacier, one of the most photogenic glaciers in Glacier Bay National Park, left me in awe today. There's something uniquely beautiful about landscapes like this — they're untouched, raw, and entirely natural. No matter how vast, these landscapes are never ugly because they embody the pure power of nature.

Through my travels aboard a cruise ship, I’ve come to learn more about geography and geology. Each day brings a new chapter of our planet’s dynamic processes — from earthquakes to hurricanes to glaciers advancing and retreating. The earth is always in motion, and it’s humbling to witness it firsthand.

In Alaska, everything seems connected — like threads woven into a vast, cosmic tapestry. And yet, standing before the vast wilderness, I can't help but feel small. There’s an overwhelming sense of humility in its grandeur. The wilderness is a form of therapy. Only by venturing alone, in silence, without distractions like buffet meals or baggage, can I truly connect with the soul of the land. While cruising through Alaska offers a beautiful experience, it is, in a sense, "karaoke traveling" — an imitation of the real thing. Still, it's a worthwhile endeavor, and I can hear the glacier's voice in the cracking ice and the bay's whispers carried by the wind.

"Keep close to Nature’s heart... and break clear away, once in a while, and climb a mountain or spend a week in the woods. Wash your spirit clean." - John Muir

Those words resonate deeply in a place like Alaska — where the wilderness itself calls for introspection and renewal.

Are we clear? Crystal.

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The Travel Molecule-New Caladonia

Isle of Pines, New Caledonia - Escape to Reality

Isle of Pines, New Caledonia - Escape to Reality

Posted by Hotel @nyware on February 23, 2012

You know, addiction isn't the problem—it’s the solution. When all you care about is the present moment, this is exactly where you need to be.

On Devil’s Island

How did you end up in a place like this? Favoritism.

Reprinted from 2011 WC: "Welcome to the penal colony at Devil’s Island, where prisoners are confined, and from which there is no escape." Now, ironically, Devil’s Island has become a destination of escape.

I’ve always said, "Instant gratification takes too long."

It’s a bumper sticker truth that encapsulates the pace of modern life.

Escape to Reality

Ile des Pins, New Caledonia – The True Spirit of Papillon

“Addicted to traveling” or even “addicted to non-working activities” should not be seen as a reason for self-hatred or as a diagnosis, but rather as a pursuit akin to the arts or entertainment—a way to explore the self and fulfill psycho-social needs. In a world that often labels unconventional passions as disorders, we tend to forget that opera and symphony aficionados are celebrated as “passionate” and “driven,” while those who chase the open road are dismissed as "addicts."

We often load the cultural dice in favor of "reality" over "fantasy," only to have the sense of adventure beaten out of us by the most irritating of questions: “Why?” Why do I have to live in the New York suburbs, where the weather’s bad, the people are rude, and there's nothing to do? And so, we turn on the TV, tune into one of a thousand channels, and slip into a shared hallucination—the superstition of materialism—until we fall asleep.

But then you get “The Call.” If you wake up and answer it, you begin the Hero’s Journey, as Joseph Campbell discusses in The Power of Myth with Bill Moyers—a must-watch for all seekers. And when you follow your bliss, you often find that it follows you right back.

I began my travels as a pastime on a shoestring budget, labeled as a drifter or a bum—looked down upon by those who find themselves trapped in the monotony of their lives. But I didn’t care. I just did it anyway. The Calvinists might say work is prayer—well, so is permanent traveling.

In the past, cultural habits like listening to jazz all day or spending endless hours at the movies or "The Theatre" were considered passionate pursuits, allowing us to create new personalities and fulfill unmet psychological needs. Now, it seems I’ve found my own form of addiction—an internet addiction. But, I say, awesome!

Seagull Management

"Some of us travel forever, seeking other states, other lives, other souls." —Anaïs Nin
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3 Years of MT (Magical Thinking) Experiences

Roam Sweet Roam: My World Cruise Adventure

Roam Sweet Roam: My World Cruise Adventure

As Joseph Campbell wisely said, "People say that what we are all seeking is a meaning for life. I don’t think this is what we’re really seeking. I think what we’re seeking is an experience of being alive." This world cruise has been one of the most rewarding forms of introspection for me. It's not just a trip; it’s part of my “re-entry” into Hotel @nyware, my ongoing break from the mundane routine of normal life, as I continue my travels on another cruise ship.

I’m living my dream of PT-Permanent Travel, also known as "Mini Retirements." I haven’t been everywhere yet, but it’s on my list. And as I document this journey—my round-the-world travelogue—I say to myself, "Roam Sweet Roam." Home is no longer just a street address; it’s wherever my computer is. I remain a digital nomad, where Anywhere becomes @nyware, location-neutral. There’s no such thing as bad real estate when you use technology and social media to stay connected. As I make my way to Sri Lanka, in the middle of nowhere yet the center of everything, I realize I can do pretty much everything I did back in the USA, only with the added benefit of a lower cost of living.

Consequently, I call home a feeling, not a place. I’ve never confused a street address for where I actually live. My destinations have never been about places; they’ve been about discovering new ways of seeing the world. The journey itself has always been my true destination.

Resourcefulness Over Resources

It’s never been about resources; it’s been about resourcefulness. We’re never too poor to buy our freedom. In fact, we are all "time millionaires." When we choose to use this precious commodity wisely, we realize that the less we put a cash value on travel, the less we associate money with life itself. The less we think that money is what we need to have an adventure, the more we unlock the true essence of living.

The Elephant: A Symbol of Joy and Prosperity

In Southeast Asia, the elephant is a symbol of good luck, longevity, peace, strength, and, most of all, joy. The image of a laughing Buddha riding an elephant with children on his lap beautifully represents happiness and prosperity in the family. Surely, it is the right wishes that draw us to the right places. Nothing of importance happens by accident in our lives.

Hotel @nyware: A New Outlook on Life

Hotel @nyware is not just a place; it's a way of choosing experiences and travel adventures over the daily grind of working away your life for material things. It’s different from being a tourist or buying a packaged vacation. Finding a simpler life is like looking into a mirror to see what you look like when you aren't actively observing yourself. It’s about staging authenticity, not just going through the motions.

The march of stupidity and the routines of tourism can feel even more monotonous than daily life. Once you’ve taken enough of those cookie-cutter tours, each one thereafter becomes both unbearable and trivial. But beyond the travel, Hotel @nyware is an outlook on life. It’s not just a lifestyle; it’s an uncommon perspective—an adjustment in values from which actions naturally follow.

The Deliberate Adventure

Long-term travel is about being deliberate. It has nothing to do with demographics—your age, belief system, or income—and everything to do with attitude. After all, attitude affects altitude. If I do nothing unexpected, then nothing unexpected happens. But I’m not just seeking interesting surroundings; I am continually interested in whatever surrounds me.

Choosing Memories Over Experiences

I’m not simply choosing between experiences. I’m choosing between the memories of those experiences. Even when I think about future vacations, I don’t envision them simply as experiences. Instead, I think of them as anticipated memories, waiting to be made.

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Hawaii_ My first Ship

Following My Bliss in Hawaii

Following My Bliss in Hawaii

I showed up in Hawaii, and magical things began to unfold. It all began with one simple decision—to go.

Being here has placed me in a unique space, one that fosters personal exploration, oneness, and mystical experiences. I've been fortunate to tap into the ancient teachings of Huna, where the Shamans speak of manifesting and the life force, known as "mana" or "Chi." These spiritual practices, rich in tradition, have become an integral part of my life on this island, guiding me in ways I never expected.

Fortune seemed to align with me from the start. My journey here began with an unexpected opportunity on the TV show Lost, and shortly after, I secured teaching contracts that allowed me to dive deeper into this place and its culture. My reverse commute from my condo in Ka-a-a-va (yes, that's how you spell it) became a cherished part of my daily rhythm.

Reflecting on my journey, I realize I am the hero of my own story. When I think of Joseph Campbell’s “Hero’s Journey,” it resonates deeply with my own life. Campbell's archetypal narrative, found across cultures, mirrors the twists and turns I've encountered, especially as I’ve navigated this new chapter in Hawaii.

I often return to an interview with Campbell, one that still echoes in my mind. During his conversation with Bill Moyers, Campbell said:

Bill Moyers: Did you ever have the sense of being helped by hidden hands?
Joseph Campbell: All the time. It is miraculous. I have a superstition that has grown on me—if you follow your bliss, you put yourself on a track that has been waiting for you all along. When you see this, you begin to meet people in your field of bliss, and they open doors for you. Doors will open where you didn’t know they would be.

This philosophy of following your bliss has been a guiding light for me. As I’ve stayed true to myself and my passions, opportunities have appeared in unexpected places—places that seemed out of reach before. In following my bliss, I’ve not only found professional success, but also a deeper connection to the world around me.

Hawaii has become more than just a backdrop for my journey—it has been a place of profound transformation. The invisible hands that Campbell spoke of are all around me. I’ve met people whose energy and wisdom have opened doors, not just in my career, but also in my personal growth.

What started as a simple decision—to go—has blossomed into a life of unexpected blessings. By staying true to my inner calling, I’ve been able to step into a version of my life I never could have predicted. And the best part? The journey is just beginning. As I follow my bliss, I trust that more doors will open, revealing even greater adventures ahead.

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What's It All About? The Sex of Travel- Do It For Fun, Do It For Money, Do It For Love

Ed Reif's Travel Chronicles

Ed Reif's Travel Chronicles

Join Ed Reif as he recounts his adventures and insights from working on a cruise ship to exploring the world. Discover his transformative experiences and reflections on travel, art, and the pursuit of freedom.

Adventures on the High Seas

Ed shares his experiences working on a cruise ship to fund his travels. From connecting with diverse cultures to finding inspiration in the vast oceans, his journey highlights the exhilaration and self-discovery that travel can offer.

From Art Dealer to World Explorer

With a background in art dealing, Ed delves into the transformative power of travel. He relates his artistic perspective to the beauty of new horizons and the thrill of taking risks in pursuit of a dream.

Philosophy and Photography

Blending anecdotes, philosophical musings, and striking photography, Ed explores themes of personal freedom, adventure, and the art of positive thinking. His stories inspire readers to embrace challenges and seize opportunities.

A Decade of Journeys

Ed's blog extensively documents years of travel and work. His vivid storytelling and practical insights make it a treasure trove for aspiring adventurers and seasoned travelers alike.

Ed Reif's Travel Chronicles

Ed Reif's Travel Chronicles

Join Ed Reif as he recounts his adventures and insights from working on a cruise ship to exploring the world. Discover his transformative experiences and reflections on travel, art, and the pursuit of freedom.

Travel as a Catalyst for Personal Freedom and Self-Discovery

Ed emphasizes the exhilaration and sense of possibility that travel evokes, allowing individuals to step outside their routines and embrace new experiences. He describes this as "an exhilarating state of mind that travel can evoke, when everything seems suddenly fresh, vivid, intensely interesting, and memorable."

The Unconventional Path to Financing Travel Dreams

Challenging the notion that travel requires significant financial resources, Ed showcases his unique approach of working on a cruise ship to fund his adventures. He believes passion and determination can overcome financial barriers.

The Power of Positive Thinking and "Magical Thinking"

Ed embraces the idea of manifesting experiences through thoughts and actions. Drawing inspiration from figures like Ernest Hemingway, he believes in creating your own reality. As he states, "My definition of Magical Thinking, or MT, is when we can manufacture experiences in our mind, and then later, attract these situations into our life."

Finding Meaning and Connection Through Art and Photography

Connecting his work as an art dealer to the transformative power of experiencing new ideas and places, Ed sees photography as a way to capture and share these experiences, believing "photos speak volumes."

The Sea as a Metaphor for Infinite Possibility

Ed finds the experience of being at sea both introspective and invigorating, offering a fresh perspective and the energy to pursue new beginnings. He states, "Going out to sea is the infinity of hope, the preview of life's coming attractions where you have final cut in your own movie."

Emphasis on Personal Agency and Freedom

Adapting a quote from Jean-Paul Sartre, Ed asserts, "Freedom is what you do to what has been done to you by your own thoughts, words and actions." He highlights the importance of taking responsibility for shaping one's experiences despite external limitations.

Drawing Inspiration from Diverse Sources

Ed weaves references from Gandhi, Gaugain, Jerry Maguire, and Malcolm Gladwell to illustrate his philosophy on work, life, and personal growth.

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Coming Home to Fiji

Coming Home to Fiji

It's like returning home to a place I’ve never been before. Welcome to Fiji—Fee-Gee.

OMG, I'm a Country Boy

John Denver must have visited this island today, singing Sunshine On My Shoulders. It’s hard to imagine a place farther away than Fiji, but the truth is, once you’ve sailed so far, you start to feel like you’re coming back home. Picture this: sailing across the brilliant blue waters of the South Pacific, gliding past idyllic islands, surrounded by exotic fish and majestic coral reefs. But wait—no need to imagine, because what you see is exactly what you get. Bula!

On the Fiji Islands

Suva - Pineapple Express

Welcome to the heart of the Fijian spirit. The air smells sweet with the scent of ripe pineapples, and the vibrant culture wraps around you like a warm embrace.

Dravuni - Another Day, Another Island

It’s another island, but each one feels like its own little piece of paradise. Escape to reality as you step onto the sands of Dravuni Island, where time seems to slow down, and everything else fades away.

Beachcomber Island - Freedom for Sale

Here on Beachcomber Island, freedom isn’t just a feeling—it’s a way of life. The laid-back vibes and pristine beaches make it easy to forget everything except the now.

Savusavu - Cue the Sun

As the sun rises over Savusavu, it feels like the universe is giving you a personal show. The calm waters reflect the golden light, and the world starts anew with each sunrise.

Fiji vs. Voss – I Could Drink a Case of You

Just east of the International Date Line lies a breathtaking chain of islands known as Fiji. Here, the smiling, dignified locals greet you with a warm bula—welcome—to their unspoiled homeland. They even give you bottles of water called Fiji, bottled at the "source," as if to remind you that the purity of this land flows straight from nature itself.

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Here Today Gone To Maui

Island Reflections

Island Reflections: Oahu and Beyond

What is it about these root systems that sock us in the figurative solar plexus? Only Mother Nature can make a tree—probably because it's so hard to figure out how to get the bark on.

Corporation Oahu is still a goldmine for romantic travel writers, sentimental videographers, bar-room bloggers, semi-literate tourists, sociologists, U of H Ph.D. students, sailing evangelists, and NGO experts. It’s a place where the layers of history, culture, and commercialization intertwine. Oahu offers a complex intersection of nature, commerce, and myth, constantly inviting reflection on our relationship with both the land and its commercialization.

"What is it about these root systems that sock us in the figurative solar plexus?"

At ABC (Aloha Bring Cash), the merchants of Paradise offer souvenir kitsch—these are the memes (thought viruses) for sale. From the hilariously romantic posters to the pseudo-scholarly trinkets, and even the infuriatingly racist postcards. You can find everything from the noble savage literary school to Margaret Mead’s studies on coming-of-age rituals, Somerset Maugham’s tales of puritan missionaries and saintly whores, and James Michener’s rascals and golden people. All these images converge around one central idea—the island tree, which symbolizes the complexity of life itself. If only I could construct the remains of the day in such a fashion. Volcanic fog, or Vog, is in the air today, and this is Pele—no, not the Brazilian soccer legend—but the Hawaiian goddess of fire, volcanoes, and destruction. It's an atmosphere filled with both mystery and raw power.

At night, the red glare from the volcano was visible from seven miles at sea. We used to sail past it in the dark, witnessing this powerful force of nature, a slumbering volcano wreathed in clouds, occasionally emitting smoke and fire. And me, like a soothsayer, trying to interpret its messages. But the only thing I know for sure is that you can’t win against a volcano. There’s a humbling power in that unpredictability.

Making Waves on the Island of Oahu

There’s a simple truth about island living: the way to ‘get there’ is simply to ‘be there.’ It’s that straightforward. There’s no need for a roadmap or a destination—just embrace the moment and the journey unfolds. The island doesn’t care where you came from or where you’re going, it only asks that you’re present. The power of presence is often underestimated, yet it’s the essence of living in harmony with the world around us.

"This is just like television, only you can see much further." – Chancey Gardener

Oahu, like many of the islands, offers a unique sense of space and time. It’s a place that demands you to slow down, listen, and become part of the landscape. The trees, the ocean, the air—they all have stories to tell. Whether it's the surf crashing on the shore or the ancient chants whispered by the wind through the trees, Oahu invites you to connect with something bigger than yourself. It's this connection that draws you in, weaving you into the fabric of the island’s timeless rhythm.

The Tour: An Adventure in Hawaii

The Tour: An Adventure in Hawaii

When I first considered life as a sailor, the glamour seemed like something out of a movie: "Repaint your entire house every month," and "Live in a dumpster for six months." But my journey began differently, on a cruise ship with America Hawaii Cruises. It wasn’t about the glamour; it was about the experience.

I took the first job I could get: a deckhand. Seven days at sea, each day bringing us to a different port of call. Our adventure started at Aloha Towers in Honolulu, followed by a sea day, and then stops in Kauai, Maui (Lahaina and Kahalui), Hilo, and Kona. Each stop was better than the last.

The weather was always perfect—temperate and refreshing. But it wasn’t just the weather that made this journey unforgettable; it was the culture, the food, the people, and the ohana (family) atmosphere that welcomed me with open arms. From that moment, I knew I was hooked on these beautiful islands.

The Definition of Ecstasy

Ecstasy, in its truest sense, is stepping out of the routine, away from the ordinary and into something extraordinary. In Hawaii, shoveling sunshine and breathing in the tropical air beats any day spent behind a desk. It’s an experience that doesn’t need to be imagined—it simply needs to be lived.

Living an Adventure

There’s something uniquely fulfilling about true travel—living in the moment and embracing adventure. I’ve come to realize that travel by proxy is like a surrogate achievement. It’s akin to feeling athletic after watching a game at a sports bar and taking a victory lap. You’re a legend in your own mind, but it’s not real.

The true sin is not greed, as Gordon Gekko famously said. No, the unpardonable sin is a life devoid of adventure—a life lived by the rules, ideas, and expectations of others. A life that never dares to ask, “What have I gotten myself into?” A life where you’re simply going through the motions. That’s the real crime.

An adventure isn’t always glamorous or perfectly planned. Sometimes, the best stories come from moments of chaos and spontaneity. The holy grail isn’t a shiny object or a status symbol; it’s about living out your dreams authentically, creating your own path, and saying yes to the unknown.

The Adventure Awaits

Every time you step out into the world, you open yourself up to the unexpected. What starts as an ordinary decision—like taking a job as a deckhand—can transform into a journey of a lifetime. The key is to follow your own path, even if it’s not what others expect.

In Hawaii, I learned that the real treasure is not the destinations, but the moments of connection, the people you meet, and the experiences you collect along the way. For me, that’s where the magic lies.

The Quest for Meaning in the Islands

The search for purpose, for understanding, often leads us to these islands. Perhaps it's because, like the ancient trees, we too must weather storms, stretch our roots, and grow in unpredictable ways. Or maybe it’s the stillness of the ocean that reminds us that even in chaos, there’s a rhythm. A cosmic rhythm that ties us all together. This is what I call the Cosmic Cartography of life. It's the idea that we navigate our world not with maps but through experiences and connections that align with the energy of the universe.

Whether it's the tropical breeze of Oahu or the cool fog of Alaska, nature always has a way of grounding us, even when we feel like we're adrift in the vastness of life. These islands, with their ancient volcanic origins and unpredictable weather patterns, offer us more than just a place to visit—they offer a mirror to our own internal landscapes, inviting us to reflect, adapt, and grow.

“The way to ‘get there’ is to ‘be there.’ It’s that simple.”

In the end, the quest for understanding isn't just about seeking knowledge; it's about learning to be present, to tune in to the rhythm of life, and to embrace each moment as it unfolds. The islands teach us that the journey is more important than the destination, and that being in tune with the world around us is where true peace and fulfillment are found.

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Hawaii-Trying To English Its beauty and magic

Changing Perspectives

Changing Perspectives

I thought I would change my mind, but instead, I changed my shirt.

Aloha!

I knew there would be days like this, I just wish someone would have told me how many!

The La Haina means 'cruel sun' in the Hawaiian Language, describing the sunny, dry climate. It receives just 13 inches of rain in a year.

What a contrast from two months ago, sailing in the Inside Passage and landing in Ketchikan, Alaska—one of the wettest places in North America. The "Path of Moist Resistance" gets a whopping 162 inches of precipitation per year—that's over 13.5 feet of wet!

"The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only one page." — St. Augustine

If you'd like to learn more about the different climates, check out my article on precipitation extremes and how these environments shape life in each place.

Climate Contrast: Hawaii vs. Alaska

Both of these places offer unique landscapes, and they stand in stark contrast to each other. While Hawaii is a tropical paradise, Alaska's natural beauty lies in its rugged, misty terrain.

The Beauty of Unexpected Discoveries

Whether it's the lush greenery of the Alaskan coastline or the dry, sunny landscapes of Hawaii, each place holds its own allure. And sometimes, it’s not just about where you are, but how you experience it.

Scenic Hawaii

Life’s Shifting Sands

In the end, what matters is that we embrace the unknown, knowing that every shift in location, every change in weather, reflects something deeper inside us. Change can be as simple as changing your shirt, or it can be as profound as shifting your perspective on life itself.

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B.C. Before Christ er I mean British Columbia

Reflections on Nature and Life

Reflections on Nature and Life

After three days of relentless rain, the sun finally graced the waterfront. The clichéd notion of moving here seems unnecessary. Following the epic downpours and flooding, I'm reminded of a beautiful quote:

"Eventually, all things merge into one, and a river runs through it."

All good things—salmon fishing as well as eternal salvation—come by grace; and grace comes by art; and art does not come easy.

This 2011 World Tour has been a grace period of kindness and favor bestowed upon me by family, old and new friends along the way, and strangers who weren't so strange after all, assisting me to live the dream of a world traveler. Yet, I constantly feel guided by hidden hands.

I am one lucky traveler. Joseph Campbell was right: the waters of eternal life are right there when you are following your bliss. You can teach an old dogma new tricks.

The river was carved by the world's great flood and flows over rocks from the basement of time. On some of those rocks are timeless raindrops. Under the rocks are the words, and some of the words are theirs. I am haunted by waters.

Alaska: If it doesn't kill you, it will make you stronger. In this case, the salmon don't make it. So much for "going with the flow." To make matters worse, young bears bulk up on salmon for a long winter's sleep. Why do they do it? The urge to merge—the Pacific Northwestern salmon is determined to travel hundreds of miles upstream against the current, with a single purpose: reproduction, and thus, life.

Any fish can fail and get caught. But a salmon's struggle is a disaster of epic proportions. Witnessing this "programming" makes me feel more alive because it didn't happen to me. The clearest way into the Universe is through a forest wilderness. Just a touch-and-go operation today, and it's déjà vu—access to thousands of acres of green spruce and fjord-like glacial melt.

I'm not stopping to ask for directions.

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Mexico Happy Go Local

Cabo-LG: Life Is Still Good

Cabo-LG: Life Is Still Good

I once thought college was the longest vacation of my life, but these "seamesters" make cold pizza seem overrated! Same hat, different day. I visited Cabo last September and wrote about it:


Today

So, a blogger walks into a bar...

¿Hay alguien que hable inglés?

In Cabo San Lucas, English is a second language, but money is the first. There's none of that confusing "Starting Saturday, we will be closed Friday" kind of Spanglish. The locals speak clear English, and Cabo feels decidedly "American."

Back in 1980, traveling outside the U.S. felt like disappearing from the world. But now, armed with a cell phone, laptop, and a Wi-Fi connection—or depending on the place, an ISDN modem—I’m as connected as I want to be, and so are the locals.

Mexico’s Pacific side reminds me of Los Angeles—the Valley, South Central, even the South Bay. It’s just another neighborhood, but with more flavor.

LG: Life Is Good in Cabo

I’ve embraced the local vibe with a “Colonel Kurtz” twist, drinking tequila and rocking a Hecho en México straw cowboy hat. The horror, the horror.

If 50 is the youth of old age, and Steffi Graf was right when she said, “Food is the sex of old age,” then analyze this: I had a guacamole-cheese-quesadilla gasm. In some parts of Mexico, I’d already be married to that tortilla.

As “Man of Many Hats Ed,” I can say: if you’re all wrapped up in yourself, you’re overdressed. Case in point: me, wrapped in a Brazilian flag during Cabo’s sunny afternoons.

Turismo

I’m retracing last year’s itinerary, but this time, I’m venturing beyond Puerto Vallarta. Sometimes, it’s not about where you go, but who you go with.

Mexico is ancient and eternal, telling its story in vibrant colors and slices of life. Even beneath my flip-flops, I can feel the earth’s rhythm. Today, surrounded by eager vendors and their offerings, I feel alive.

Now that I’ve left Alaskan weather behind, I can see clearly—no more rain, just sunshine. One nation, under Canada, above Mexico, and I am still an AmeriCAN, not an AmeriCAN'T.

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Los Angeles-Johnny Comes Marching Home:Landed

Home Again in Los Angeles

Home Again in Los Angeles: A Sailor’s Journey Back

After a year of navigating the world's seas, I’ve landed back where it all started—Los Angeles. This city, sprawling and sunlit, now feels like a port of both departure and return, a place where the journey begins anew.

The Optimist’s Compass

At sea, optimism isn’t a luxury—it’s a survival skill. You learn to embrace the uncertainty of open water, transforming each destination into a story worth telling. But let’s not sugarcoat it: not every port is paradise. Some places remind you that the future doesn’t always live up to its promises. Still, as a sailor, you don’t quit on places—you connect with people. The best ships, after all, are friendships, and the oceans have introduced me to some incredible souls.

Sailing Toward Possibility

The sea is a boundless expanse of hope—a preview of life’s infinite possibilities. Every voyage is a promise of something new. The waves, endless and hypnotic, nourish the soul with their rhythm, offering not just sustenance but clarity.

For a year, itineraries drove my days: a schedule full of promise and purpose. Yet, the most fulfilling part wasn’t the destinations but the sense of becoming—the realization that I could shape my own story, one port at a time.

Living an Improvised Life

Adventure, it turns out, is nothing more than bad planning with good intentions. I learned this lesson early, pitching myself into a ship job with nothing but a 12-minute elevator speech. That leap of faith taught me to trust myself, and in doing so, I’ve lived more fully than I ever imagined.

Still, ship life is a paradox. It’s freedom wrapped in monotony, hysteria laced with quiet. It’s not “real life,” but an alibi for something deeper—a chance to lose your mind in order to find yourself. And while a fool who persists in his folly becomes wise, ten ships later, I’m ready to embrace perfection, imperfect as it may be.

Rediscovering America

Returning to the U.S. has reminded me of its quirks and contradictions. Born into the geographical lottery of living in “the land of the free,” I once took this privilege for granted. Now, I see it differently. The grass isn’t greener elsewhere—it’s greener where you choose to water it.

After a year at sea, I realize that Los Angeles, with all its flaws, is fertile ground for new beginnings. This city, this country, isn’t perfect. But neither am I. And maybe that’s what makes it home.

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Rock Me On The Water

Rock Me On the Water

Rock Me On the Water

The Budget Travel Olympian

No matter how low the budget bar is set, I always manage to limbo under it. I’m the Wilt Chamberlain of shoestring travel—racking up stats so unbelievable that mere mortals could never dream of matching them: 300 ports in 38 months.

The Unseen Travel Writer

As the Morgan Freeman of travel writers, I’m a familiar face without the fame to match. Recognition? Rare. Respect? Elusive. My blog, Hotel @nyware (edreif.com), might not be the Edgar Allen Poe of literary knockouts, the Emily Dickinson of poetic triumphs, or the Robert Frost of verbal takedowns. But it’s mine, unapologetically.

Visuals Over Verbs

Instead of waxing poetic, I let my camera do the talking. Photos and videos take center stage for the auditory and visual audience—a little bit of CNN for those who prefer action over alphabet soup.

The In to My Sane

Born with an uncanny talent for throwing ideas against the wall and seeing what sticks, I’ve lived a life that would make Colonel Kurtz jealous. I’ve gone native and insane more times than I can count, but always in a Lance Armstrong-Barbara Bush kind of way (if that even makes sense).

Sometimes, I’m the census taker. Other times, I’m the cannibal psychiatrist. Life on the road—or the water—has made me both observer and participant in a world that’s endlessly fascinating and frequently absurd.

Failure Is Always an Option

Margaret Thatcher once said, “Any man who rides a bus past the age of 26 should consider himself a failure.” To that, I’d add: “Any man working on a cruise ship should know that failure is always an option.”

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